Code of conduct
Everyone should feel safe and welcome at our socials and festivals. So that everyone can have a good time on our dance floors, please respect the following.
12 things we ask of everyone
At the weekly Swing Social, at our festivals and at every event we organise.
- Ask everyone to dance
Especially new dancers and visitors – this is how we help make everyone feel welcome.
- Don't assume dance roles
Just ask: “Would you like to lead or follow?”
- Say yes
There is nothing better than an enthusiastic yes – and give every dance your best.
- Say no (thank you)
This is your right, and it requires no explanation or apology. If someone declines a dance, that's okay! Don't take it personally – just say “Sure, maybe next time!”
- Say STOP
If anyone touches you inappropriately or makes you uncomfortable in any way, that is not okay. Tell them to stop, and tell someone from the team if they don't.
- No aerials on the social floor
The social floor is often very crowded: no airsteps, dips, lifts or drops. Keep these for jam circles and competitions – and only with your partner's verbal consent.
- Bring a spare shirt
Dancing is sweaty – bring extra shirts to change into.
- Photos and videos
If you do not wish to be photographed or filmed, please let the team know when you arrive.
- No flash
Please do not use flash photography.
- Mind the other dancers
Be careful and respectful of other dancers on the floor. If you accidentally bump into, step on or kick someone, immediately check that they are okay and apologise.
- Respect boundaries
Be aware of non-verbal signals and respect your partner's personal boundaries. Seek consent within the dance – not everyone feels comfortable in a closed embrace, for example.
- No unsolicited advice
Leave teaching off the social floor entirely. If someone wants your input, they will ask for it.
Something happened? Talk to us.
If you experience or witness behaviour that makes you or someone else feel unsafe, please tell someone from the organising team or festival staff straight away – at the event, or afterwards by email to blackforesthop@gmail.com.
These rules date from 2018. The board may want to review them, and name specific contact persons (e.g. an awareness team) for the weekly social and for festivals – to be confirmed.